Definition of 相悔み (あいくやみ)
あいくや
                        相悔み
あいくやみ
aikuyami
noun
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mutual mourning (during which one does not make condolence calls or offer to help others also in mourning)
Other readings:
                相悔やみ【あいくやみ】
                Related Kanji
| 相 | inter-, mutual, together, each other, minister of state, councillor, aspect, phase, physiognomy | 
| 悔 | repent, regret |